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Children better off with married parents
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Here to read the study by Penelope Leach]
The furore surrounding the publication of research
on parental versus institutional child care raises some
interesting points other the ones that hit the headlines.
Everyone is acutely aware of the scandals of historical
child abuse of children placed in institutional care
by the state and that is partly why there exists today
the LEGAL PRESUMPTION that a child's optimal welfare
is to be found in the care of its MARRIED PARENTS acting
jointly.
The presumption is based on the fact that these parents
have subjected themselves to the regulation of marriage
in the interests of the child and the good of society
and concurs with the established social science evidence
(which the authorities are now trying to conceal) which
shows that, amongst all the different family permutations,
significantly optimal outcomes for children can be predicted,
in terms of health, educational achievement and social
development, when they are brought up by their two married
parents working together. A recent WHO report on children's
health clearly showed this.
However, in
the study by Penelope Leach,
which can be downloaded for inspection from our website
at www.family-men.com, there is no mention whatsoever
of the marital status of the mothers of the children.
I must ask how any person who wants to be considered
a reputable researcher can conduct and publish a report
if their study does not acknowledge that marital status
is THE major variable in the outcomes for children.
Because the effect of marital status is SO SIGNIFICANT
it is not difficult to suppose that regardless of type
of child caring arrangements employed children who are
lucky enough to be born into a stable married family
would fare significantly better.
This must make a complete nonsense of the study?
Why is the variable of marital status not considered
when it patently masks all other variables.
The answer is that the motive of feminist-state-funded
research is to demonise and eradicate marriage by whatever
lies and misrepresentation of the facts it can.
During an interview with Professor Belsky on the
BBC we were told a listener phoned in with a question
about the position regarding fathers as carers for children.
Prof Belsky did everything possible rather than answer
the simple question. He twisted one way and then the
other alluding to some difficulty in finding a representative
sample of fathers and claiming men who looked after
their children were in some way "strange".
What a load of twaddle. Obviously the good professor's
own sympathies are being shown here rather than any
academic prowess.
The answer to the listeners question is simply answered
by Warren Farrell in his excellent book, "Father
and Child Reunion".
In his book Farrell provides ample evidence that
fathers are every bit as good as mothers at looking
after children if obliged to. The research in fact shows
that the outcomes for children, in terms of health,
educational achievement and social development, are
actually very slightly better when brought up by their
fathers on their own rather than by the mother and father
acting together and both these arrangements are statistically
better than mothers acting on their own. Non-parental
care is shown to be a total disaster.
Perhaps an important aspect of this that the professor
could not quite utter is that the only class of fathers
who are allowed to raise children on their own are husbands
- either widowers or married men who do not want to
be on their own but who have been deserted by their
wives or where their wives have been shown to be unfit
parents.
The point is that the question as to whether the
father or mother is the better parent is a red herring
- a typical ruse used by the feminist state for the
past thirty years to foment a phoney war between men
and women with the intention of dividing and ruling.
Obviously the ideal arrangement for children - and
the one that the state is trying to eradicate, although
it is obliged to support through every branch of government
- is for them to be brought up in a stable married family
with two parents exercising their complementary positions
as husband and wife.
In this arrangement as long as there is one full-time
parent caring at home, it is irrelevant which parent
actually does it, or even if the child is looked after
by someone else for a few hours whilst some pressing
or part-time work is done.
However, if parents believe money is so important
that they can't look after their own children themselves
and voluntarily place them into full-time institutional
child care, it is hard to see any difference between
that situation and the state TAKING the children into
care.
Roger Eldridge, Chairman. National
Men's Council of Ireland, Knockvicar, Boyle, Co.
Roscommon Www.family-men.com
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