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Submission on the Review of Lone Parent Allowance
and One Parent Family Payment Scheme The National
Mens Council of Ireland
The following report analyses the way that the Department
of Social and Family Affairs is operating the Lone Parent
Allowance and One Parent Family Payment schemes where
the applicant is Married.
Last year we presented a Report - titled, "Brides
of the State", which showed how the
Department of Social and Family Affairs was using tax
payers money to make it more attractive for a women
to have a child and be supported by the state rather
than marrying the baby's father. (This report is available
to download on our website, www.family-men.com)
If these two analyses are correct (and they are evidence-based)
there is a major problem in the way that these schemes
are being operated.
In fact the problem identified below in connection
with Married couples can be seen to be instrumental
in fundamentally undermining Marriage in Ireland and
in causing a serious miscarriage of justice in particular
cases which will involve massive compensation from the
public purse.
The law of Marriage is essentially the same today
as it was thousands of years ago and can be paraphrased
as the solemn vows that the prospective couple make
to each other in their wedding ceremony. With only minor
variations they promise each other, "to have
and to hold from this day forth, for better, for worse,
for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to
love and to cherish till death us do part."
In practice if something goes terribly wrong and
one spouse deserts or otherwise abandons their commitment
to the Marriage, the errand spouse can be forced, in
law, to support the innocent spouse.
The state also plays its part by making welfare payments
available to support deserted spouses and their children
and by seeking compensation for the public purse from
the deserting spouse.
That was the situation until 1989. Then common sense
and the rulebook were thrown out of the window and feminist-inspired
so-called non-judgementalism took its place - all behind
closed doors and contrary to the expressed intention
of the Oireachtas!
This report exposes how, according to the evidence,
the then Minister for Social and Family Affairs, Dr
Michael Woods turned the moral basis for the laws on
desertion upside down and allowed deserting spouses
to avail of the One Parent Family Payment and in the
process condemned the innocent deserted parent by making
them the Liable Relative and Maintenance Debtor.
Since that time the state, through the Lone Parent
Allowance and One Parent Family Payment schemes, can
be seen to be complicit in the destruction of the fundamental
basis on which Marriage is founded. In this way the
state has itself initiated the transformation of Irish
society into what it is today - a haven for deserters
and therefore immoral. And one where the state funds
any activity or group which might undermine Marriage.
This modest report was compiled within a few weeks
to comply with a deadline set by the Department of Social
and Family Affairs. As well as attempting to show how
the law of Marriage has been corrupted and seriously
undermined for the past sixteen years by the Department
of Social and Family Affairs the second section provides
a poignant account, in the words of one Deserted Married
Father, of the impact that the so-called 'non-judgmental'
operation of the Scheme has had on families, and stands
as a testimony to the hitherto untold human misery being
caused by the Department's misguided activities.
Brendan Walker Family Affairs Unit Department of Social & Family Affairs Store Street, Dublin 1
Sent by post and e-mail as a .pdf on 20 May 2005
Re: Submission on the Review of Lone Parent Allowance
and One Parent Family Payment Scheme to
(i) Steering
Group chaired by the Department of the Taoiseach
and (ii) the Senior Officials Group on Social Inclusion
Dear Mr Walker
We note and appreciate that you have extended the
deadline by two weeks for presenting our evidence to
the above Groups. In view of the fact that, even with
this extension we have had only four weeks from the
date we received your invitation to prepare a submission,
we regret that under the circumstances our assessment
of the public impact of the scheme must be brief.
However, as Andrew King and I explained to you at
the Department’s Seminar in Carrick-on-Shannon last
year, the way that the Department of Social and Family
Affairs is operating the One Parent Family Payment scheme
is far from satisfactory.
Indeed our research points to the inevitable conclusion
from our analysis that many awards of the One Parent
Family Payment under the scheme are illegal and the
condemning of a deserted spouse by the Department of
Social and Family Affairs to the role of a “liable relative”
and “maintenance debtor” is without foundation.
If our analysis of the legislative basis and regulations
of the Lone Parent Allowance and One Parent Family Payment
Scheme by the Department of Social Welfare is accurate,
the way the Schemes are operated by the Department will be shown to be culpable for having
committed serious miscarriages of Justice and having
interfered with many parent’s Guardianship rights as
well as being responsible for the neglect of the welfare
of a large number of children.
Despite the brief time available we wanted to show
the impact of the scheme in two ways:
Section 1. We felt there was a need to thoroughly
investigate the legal and historical basis for
the Scheme in order that we could understand how it
was intended to be operated so that we could then clearly
indicate the grave shortcomings in the actual day to day working
of the Schemes and the potential that exists for legal
action to be taken by certain spouses for damages incurred
by them and their children as a result of inappropriate implementation of the schemes by the Department
of Social and Family Affairs.
Section 2. The impact that this improper operation
of the Scheme has had on families can be best presented
in the words below of one Deserted Married Father, which
stand as testimony to the hitherto untold human misery being caused by your Department’s misguided
activities.
Section 1. Background to and implementation of the
Lone Parent Allowance, One Parent Family Payment schemes
and liable relative provisions
One of the main requirements of justice is that a
law be morally sound in its operation. This derives
from the maxim in law that ‘a person must not benefit
from their own transgression’ or in other words ‘the
defaulter must pay the penalty.’
In family law this is given expression in the laws
arising from the liability to maintain one’s dependants
of a marriage and in particular relating to Maintenance.
A parent who has the duty, in law, to maintain their
dependent spouse and/or their children through Marriage and/or
Guardianship duties can be forced through the amended
Family Law (Maintenance of Spouses and Children) Act,
1976 or through the amended Guardianship of Infants
Act, 1964 to pay maintenance towards the upkeep of their
dependants if it is shown to the satisfaction of the
court of law that they had wilfully failed to do so.
These laws work on the presumption that the respondent
has deserted or otherwise abandoned their duty to maintain
their dependants. The law of Ireland is that there is
a bar to maintenance being paid where the applicant
is shown to be the deserting spouse. As stated by Seamus
Wolfe in his annotated notes to the Judicial Separation
and Family Law Reform Act, 1989 regarding the amended
Section 20 (3) which amended the Family Law (Maintenance of Spouses and Children) Act, 1976,
“Desertion is prima facie a bar” to being awarded
an order for maintenance. “However, at the time, the
court could still make an order where it feels it would
be “repugnant to justice” not to do so.”
The amended Section 20 (3) of the Judicial Separation
and Family Law Reform Act, 1989 states,
“The court shall not make an order under section
13, 14, 15 or 16(a) or(b) of this Act for the support
of the spouse where the spouse has deserted and has
continued to desert the other spouse up to the time
of the institution of proceedings for a decree of judicial
separation unless, having regard to all the circumstances
(including the conduct of the other spouse) the court
is of the opinion that it would be repugnant to justice
not to make such order or orders.”
Section 5 (2) of the Family Law (Maintenance of Spouses
and Children) Act, 1976 was amended to be compatible
with this new section of the Act of 1989. However when
this section of the Judicial Separation Act was repealed by the Oireachtas in the family reform Act,
1995 it logically must also have struck out the amendment
to Section 5 (2) of the Family Law (Maintenance of Spouses
and Children) Act, 1976. That it has not yet been repealed is an anomaly that requires immediate attention.
Despite this attempt to ‘fudge’ the law on maintenance
it still actually bars a deserter from receiving an
award of maintenance WITHOUT A proper TRIAL in a designated
court of law TO DETERMINE THE FACTS OF THE CASE. Only a judge in a court of law can overturn
the bar on maintenance for a deserter.
Legislation relating to Social Welfare follows the
same principles of law and we give examples below where
Dr Woods, Minister of Social and Family Affairs repeatedly
assures the members, when he was introducing new contingency measures and in supplying Written Answers,
that the basis of the Lone Parent Allowance and the
One Parent Family Payment schemes and the Liable Relative
provisions was that the Government were acting in such a way as to look after the “innocent spouse”
and were themselves actively seeking out the “deserting
spouse” to obtain compensation for the public purse.
On the 21 March 1990 in the Dail debate on the Second
Stage of the Social Welfare Bill, 1990, Minister for
Social Welfare (Dr. Woods) Michael J. Woods stated
at [758] line 10 “The new scheme which I am now providing for in the
Bill will streamline all existing social assistance
payments for lone parents. It will incorporate the existing
schemes for unmarried mothers, widowers and deserted
husbands. Women receiving widow’s non-contributory
pension, deserted wife’s allowance and prisoner’s wife’s
allowance, who have child dependants will also be covered
by the new scheme".
at [766] line 7 “Sections 12 to 16 provide for the new allowance
for parents bringing up children on their own. Section
12 sets out the persons who are to be regarded as lone
parents. It provides that the circumstances in which
lone parents will be regarded as separated or unmarried will be
set out in regulations.”
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On 24 November, 1993 in Dáil Éireann in Written
Answers Minister for Social Welfare (Dr. Woods) Michael
J. Woods replied to Mr J. Bruton, T.D. on the question
of “Deserting Parents' Maintenance Payments”
“The “liability to maintain [409] family” provisions
are now contained in Part IX of the Social Welfare (Consolidation)
Act, 1993. These provisions are based on the widely-accepted
obligation on people to maintain their spouses and their children. Under the legislation,
where a marriage breakdown occurs and a family is dependent
on social welfare income maintenance, the person who
is liable to maintain that family must contribute to
my Department towards the cost of the family's income
support.
The scheme commenced on 29 November 1990. To date,
over 10,000 cases have been examined by my Department.
It is not always possible to trace the current whereabouts
of deserting spouses; some emigrate, almost all change address ...
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The present system for tracing deserting spouses
is labour intensive and slow. It is planned to periodically
review cases which could not be traced in the past on
an ongoing basis. Major improvements in the computer
systems in my Department currently underway will
assist this ongoing review process. I expect that these
measures will increase substantially the number of liable
relatives making a contribution towards social welfare
support for their deserted or separated spouses and
their children.
Despite these reassurances that the Minister was
following the bar on desertion, Minister Woods changed
the whole basis of these contingency schemes, out of
sight of the Oireachtas and contrary to what he assured
them. He was given the task by the Oireachtas of defining,
through a Statutory Instrument, the qualifying conditions
for an award of Lone Parent Allowance and One Parent
Family Payment. Minister Woods was required to define
“separated” in a way that was consistent with the
prevailing ‘bar on deserters’ gaining awards of maintenance.
Members of the Oireachtas do not get the opportunity
to debate or amend Statutory Instruments that a government
Minister is required to draw up to ensure the proper
operation of statutes brought into law. Members must
trust that the Minister so empowered remains faithful
to the letter of the law and to the intention of the
Oireachtas in their deliberations in making the law.
Minister Woods entirely failed to do this and commenced
operating the schemes in a “non-judgmental” manner.
In the Regulation below made by the Minister for
Social Welfare the definition of “A Separated Spouse”
fails to disqualify a deserting wife or husband from
being granted the One Parent Family Payment (a scheme
under the “Lone Parent Allowance Scheme”).
SOCIAL WELFARE (CONSOLIDATED PAYMENTS PROVISIONS)
(AMENDMENT) (NO. 10) (ONE PARENT FAMILY PAYMENT) REGULATIONS
1996 - REG 6
6 One-parent family payment. 6. The Principal Regulations are hereby amended by the substitution
for Chapter 5 of Part III of the following Chapter:
"
CHAPTER 5
One Parent Family Payment
79. Definitions.
In this Chapter 'liable relative' has the meaning assigned to it in Part IX.
80. Circumstances in which
person to be regarded as being a separated spouse. A
person is to be regarded for the purposes of Chapter
9 of Part III as being a separated spouse if —
(a) she
and their children –
(i) are not being maintained by
a liable relative, or
(ii) are being maintained by a
liable relative but at an amount per week which is less
than the weekly rate of one-parent family payment as
set out at reference 5 in Part I of the Fourth Schedule to the
Principal Act appropriate to her family size and for
this purpose, where she is being maintained by more
than one liable relative, the amount at which she is
being maintained shall be determined by reference to the
aggregate maintenance paid,
(b) she and her spouse have lived apart from one
another for a continuous period of at least 3 months
immediately preceding the date of her claim for one-parent
family payment and continue to so live apart, and
(c)
he makes and continues to make appropriate efforts,
in the particular circumstances, to obtain maintenance
from a liable relative.
Attention was drawn to this irregularity and an assertion
was made that it would bring the law into serious disrepute
by Mr J. O’Keefe, T.D. in the Dail on 7 March 1989 during
the debate of the Second Stage of the Social Welfare Bill, 1989 . Minister for Social Welfare
(Dr. Woods) Michael J. Woods failed to act on this information.
Mr O’Keefe at [2516] line 6 is quoted as, “It is clear that there is no co-ordination of family
law and social welfare legislation. Under current maintenance
regulations if a wife is regarded as being in desertion
the courts may not allow maintenance. Neither can she
get [2516] a deserted wife's allowance although she
can get a supplementary welfare allowance. It is ludicrous
to think that a husband in such a case may have had
a maintenance order refused by the courts but he may
subsequently be ordered by the same court to reimburse
the Minister for Social Welfare or a health board. The
District Court, under this provision, will be able to
order a contribution even though on a different application a maintenance order might earlier have
been refused. That seems to have the possibility of
bringing the law into serious disrepute.”
The Minister assured Deputy O’Keefe that this would
be attended to in Committee. It never was. In fact this
deception of the Oireachtas by his Department, initiated
in 1989/90, continues to this day.
The Department’s only attempt at a justification
for this corruption of the intent of the Oireachtas
is given in the Department’s Review of the One Parent
Family Payment Scheme undertaken as part of the Department’s
Expenditure Review Programme within the Strategic
Management Initiative.
Executive Summary, page ii
4. In 1990 the Lone Parent’s Allowance (LPA) was
introduced. The new scheme was, for the first time,
open to both men and women; lone parents who had separated
from their spouses no longer had to prove desertion
in order to qualify for a payment.
7. The OFP has two main objectives
• The relief of hardship where a lone parent has
not secured adequate or any maintenance from his/her
spouse or the other parent of the child.
• To support and encourage lone parents to consider
employment as an alternative to long term welfare dependency
while at the same time supporting them to remain in
the home if that is their wish.
In addition, it aims to ensure that
• Lone parents are treated in a fair and equitable
manner without regard to gender or the circumstances
in which they became lone parents.
• Lone parents can easily assess the implications
of taking up employment or training.
• Where possible the cost of any support given to
lone parents from the other parent of the child/ren
is recovered.
Uniform Treatment of Lone Parents
6.19 As outlined
in Chapter 3, the OFP is the latest in the development
of lone parent schemes which has seen provision for
lone parents move from a situation where they were provided for under a number of different schemes
(such as Unmarried Mother’s Allowance, Deserted Wife’s
Allowance) to one scheme catering for all.
The thinking underlying this development is that
the income support needs of lone parents and their children
are basically the same and the reason for becoming a
lone parent is irrelevant. In effect, the scheme focuses
on lone parenthood as a contingency that requires income
support and is not judgmental in the way that, for instance,
the deserted wives schemes were in that recipients had
to prove they were deserted in order to qualify for
a payment. By this they decided that they would no
longer seek a determination of whether the applicant
for Lone Parent Allowance or One Parent Family Payment
had actually been deserted.
This leaves the Department of Social and Family Affairs
in the position that for the past 15 years it has been
making awards under the Lone Parent Allowance and One
Parent Family Payment schemes to any parent who presents themselves and some children to the Department
and asks for it without any worries about the fact that
the parent may be, themselves, the deserter - the defaulter
in the marriage.
It would appear that the Department of Social and
Family Affairs is breaking the law on desertion and
its own qualifying conditions for the Lone Parent Allowance
or One Parent Family Payment schemes if there is evidence
of
any of the following documentation:
- Structured negotiations (ie in the form of solicitors
letters) omitting to claim maintenance for the applicant.
- Any separation agreement, especially one which
omits a settlement specifying an amount for the maintenance
of the applicant. Any agreement fails on the basis that
the applicant is plainly not “bringing up the children
without the support of the other parent”. The applicant
and other parent are in full co-operation about how
they will manage the children.
- Any court Orders that omit an award of Maintenance
to the applicant.
- Copies of Applications to the court that omit
an application for an award of maintenance to the applicant.
Another problem is that married women, when being
in desertion, are in “unauthorised possession” of the
children of the marriage. The basic rules of the Lone
Parent Allowance and One Parent Family Payment is that
the applicant must be bringing up children without the
support of the other parent. The Department of Social
and Family Affairs makes no effort whatsoever to seek
validation of whether the parent is actually bringing
up children without the support of the other parent.
The award of the One Parent Family Payment can also
be shown to be prejudicial to the making of other Family
Law orders. Where a spouse declares an award of the
One Parent Family Payment to a Court of Law, by way
of an affidavit of means or during proceedings the Court
must presume that the Department of Social and Family
Affairs has applied the legislation in a Constitutionally
proper manner and presumes that the award of the One
Parent Family Payment was a “just” award and made
to the “innocent” party.
The truth is however that the Department of Social
and Family Affairs makes no formal efforts to even ascertain
the status of the other spouse and whether they are
the ‘innocent party’ or have given their ‘permission’
for the children to be taken from the family home. In the
avoidance of seeking any validation of the status of
the applicant there will undoubtedly be many instances
where the Department of Social and Family Affairs will
also be shown to be in the position of criminally aiding
and abetting the unauthorised possession of the children
by the parent who is least capable of attending to the
children’s moral welfare.
In cases where the Department of Social and Family
Affairs makes an award after it has been given evidence
from the other spouse that the applicant is a deserter
and/or that they themselves are being prevented by the
applicant in sharing the duties of rearing the children, the
Department is in breach of its own regulations and qualifying
conditions (that the applicant must be bringing up children
without the support of the other parent) as well as
interfering without authority into the Marriage.
Recently the current Minister of Social Welfare,
Mr Ahern is quoted in the media as considering the relaxation
of the bar on cohabiting as a qualifying condition for
the One Parent Family Payment. This bar already discriminates against heterosexual couples as a Same-sex
couple can never live together “as man
and wife”.
Any relaxation of the bar on cohabiting will, in
many instances, where the cohabiting couple are in fact
both parents of the child that is part of the award
of One Parent Family Payment eliminate the original
reason for the introduction of the Lone Parent Allowance scheme,
which was to support a parent bringing up a child without
the support of the other parent.
More importantly it will overnight eradicate Marriage
as the financial incentives will massively accrue to
co-habiting whilst claiming One Parent Family Payment
with the loss of the payment being a serious disincentive
to marry. This is plainly not in the Common Good and
unconstitutional.
The position of the National Mens Council of Ireland
is quite clear and concurs with that of Article 41 of
Bunreacht Na hÉireann. We believe that Marriage is the
best arrangement within which to bring up children and
that it is the duty of the state to guard the institution
of Marriage and defend it from attack.
The current operation of the Lone Parent Allowance
and One Parent Family Payment schemes plainly
are repugnant to the Constitution and must be reviewed
immediately and amended to ensure that Marriage is not
undermined by the immoral and illegal award of public
funds to a deserter and the concomitant punishment of
the innocent spouse and children through the application
of the Department’s liable relative provisions.
Further reference to the position of the National
Mens Council of Ireland can be found at our website,
www.family-men.com.
Section 2. An interview with a Deserted Married Father.
Q. 1 How is life for you just
now?
My children were taken away from me by their mother
over four years ago. I have not seen them since. Over
the past four years I have tried to get help to deal
with this problem.
On the understanding that I had rights as a parent.
I went to the Legal Aid Board and another solicitor.
I soon realised that they were acting against me and
my children. I also went to the Health Board and Garda
Siochana because I thought they would care about my children
and about child abuse. Neither the Health Board nor
the Gardai wanted the problem and sent me to the Courts.
The District Court ignored me and would only listen
to my wife so I went to the Irish Human Rights Commission
believing that they were interested in protecting the
Human Rights of my children and my self. They wasted
my time for over a year by writing me hugely complex
letters asking unanswerable questions so that they
could find an excuse not to help me and my children.My
TD claimed at first that he was concerned about his
constituents getting a fair hearing in the Courts but
in fact he did nothing. This has involved me in writing thousands
and thousands of pages of correspondences. Not one of
these state agencies or public representatives has ever
done anything to help my children or me.
Since the children were taken I have not had any
real time to spend in working to build a future for
them. The opposite has happened. My health has suffered
terribly; I have been physically ill and even been in
hospital as a result of the distress that the situation is causing
me. To help anybody imagine what this is like, if anybody
has ever lost their children in a busy shopping centre
for one minute, they will know the anxiety this causes.
This level of anxiety has been felt constantly for four
years now.
Q. 2 How did this all start?
My wife deserted me in May of 2000. She told me she
didn’t like being co-dependent. She found Married life
too restricting on what she called her “personal freedom”.
She said she wanted to be “independent”, to “have her
own money” and “her own house.” Her conscience did
not appear to be troubled in breaking the solemn promise
that she had made to bring our children up together.
However, after she left she made no attempt to actually
support herself. She knew from the One Parent Family
Payment Guide that after three months of living away
from me that she would be able to get money for herself
by making a claim.
I struggled under these awful circumstances to keep
the family functioning and continued to provide the
children with the stable home environment and good wholesome
food which they always had from me. Even though my wife had left me claiming that she wanted to be independent
she insisted on taking money from me and using the facilities
in the home when it suited her.
Keeping the children feeling secure was made incredibly
difficult as they had to experience my wife entering
into successive loose sexual relationships with other
men who she made act as surrogate fathers to the children
to create competition with me and push me out as a father.
As soon as the three month qualifying period was
up, my wife , out of the blue, took our two small children
and presented them to the Community Welfare Officer.
She lied to the officer. She told her that I had not
been looking after the children and that she’d had no
money from you to feed her and the children for four
months.
The Community Welfare Officer was willing to believe
every word that my wife said. This Officer abused and
insulted me, accusing me of depriving my children of
food and money for four months. This was glaringly untrue
since the children were well fed and in good health.
The Officer had the indisputable evidence of her own
eyes to refute my wife's ridiculous claim of starvation.
Q 3. Did the Community Welfare Officer give you an
opportunity to present your side of the story?
No, she believed everything my wife had said and
wouldn’t believe the obvious truth that I had been feeding
and caring for the children as i had always done.
Q 4. What happened next?
The Community Welfare Officer apparently arranged
to visit my wife’s residence. My wife contrived to take
the children from me to have them with her for the visit
on that day. The Community Welfare Officer then told
me that she had decided that the children were living
with my wife on the basis that she had seen them with
her once in her office and once at my wife’s residence.
From that time on the Community Welfare Officer began
making supplementary welfare payments to my wife for which
I understand, at that point, I became a “liable relative”
and a “Maintenance Debtor.”
Apart from my wife showing the children to the Community
Welfare Officer to make her money I continued to be
the main carer for the children.
Q 5. Did you have an opportunity to appeal against
the decision made by the Community Welfare Officer to
take over your role as a parent and to appeal against
your newly acquired status as a “Maintenance Debtor”?
No and I was not informed of any such process being
in existence.
Q 6. How did things develop after that?
My wife became seriously ill and the children continued
to live with and be cared by me without any help from
anybody. This went on for months. The Community Welfare
Officer continued to pay my wife even though the children were living with me and my wife was staying
with another man and not at the address she was claiming
from. I couldn’t go to work yet I did not receive any
financial support for the children during this time.
One day just before Christmas of 2000 my wife burst
into our home, grabbed the children’s clothes and bundled
the children into a waiting car. She wouldn’t tell me
where she was taking them.
I found out later that she took them to a nearby
town and was later given private rented accommodation
by the same Community Welfare Officer.
My wife and the children disappeared completely and
the children were not home for Christmas and I heard
nothing for a couple of months. Then I got a letter
in January from a Legal Aid Board solicitor asking me
if I would agree to my wife deserting and if i would consent
to a Separation Agreement that would involve the continued
Joint Custody of the children. I later realised that
this letter was her attempt to appear to be meeting
the qualifying condition set by the Department which required her
to show she was involved in “structured negotiations”
regarding the Custody and Maintenance of the children.
I then got a letter in February from a Social Welfare
Inspector telling me that my wife had made a claim for
a One Parent Family Payment and that he would be visiting
me. During the visit he told me that I was, myself,entitled to make a claim for the One Parent Family
Payment but that I wouldn’t get anything. He also told
me that because my family’s legal affairs were
not sorted out that he would recommend that my wife’s
claim be refused.
A year later my wife revealed that she was in fact
being paid the One Parent Family Payment. The family's
affairs had not been attended to. At no time had I consented
to the children living with her away from the family
home.
Q.7 So no one informed you that your wife was
being paid the money?
No.
Q.8 And your understanding, from the Social Welfare
Inspector, was that she wasn’t entitled to the money?
That’s what I was told. I wanted my children to be
returned home so that I could continue to look after
them. The letter I got from the Social welfare Inspector
made no reference to any process by which I could appeal
against this award to her.
Q. 9 Since that time have you found out any
of the actual regulations that are supposed to determine
what the Social Welfare people can do and can’t do?
Yes. Since I found that the state agencies were not
going to help me I’ve had to look for an alternative
way to protect my Family.
I had to try to discover what the Social Welfare
Department and the Health Board thought gave them the
right to do this to my Family. So I started to
look at the real law and the regulations.
The One Parent Family Payment is supposed to be a
benefit for parents bringing up a child without the
support of a partner through no fault of their own.
As I said before I have never been approached by the
Social Welfare Department to ask me specifically if I had
abandoned my responsibilities toward my children. The
truth is plainly that my wife is obstructing me from
carrying out those responsibilities.
The "qualifying conditions" for an award
of this pension are:
1. That my wife had the "main care and charge"
of our children. “Charge” is a legal term. A person
has “Charge” of a child where they are given that “charge”
by the person who has “Custody” of the child.
I had not given my wife the main care and charge
of our children.
2. That my wife make "appropriate efforts"
to "get maintenance" for herself and the children.
The One Parent Family Payment scheme has recently done
away with the requirement that a claimant prove desertion
by their spouse. The current legislation in Ireland regarding
maintenance of spouses is contained in the Family Law
(Maintenance of Spouses and Children Act) 1976. The
law is based on the concept of "Family Default".
Under this law a deserting spouse, such as my wife, cannot be
entitled to a maintenance payment.
My wife as the deserter and defaulter in the family
is not even entitled to make an application to a Court
of law under this Act; this duty being entrusted
only to me, the innocent spouse. My wife can never fulfil
this qualification. In fact I must assume that my wife
supplied the department with the absolute proof of her
desertion and invalidity to receive the One Parent Family
Payment if she showed them evidence of her attempts
to get Maintenance. At no stage of any legal process
or proceedings has my wife attempted to claim maintenance
for herself as she is obliged to under the qualifying
conditions for the One Parent family Payment. Thus she
has utterly failed to demonstrate that she is without
the support of her partner through no fault of her own.
I’ve also looked at the application form for the
One Parent Family Payment. On it the term "maintenance"
is defined, contrary to the legal meaning, to be simply
"income". I must conclude from this that,
even though legally my deserting wife has forfeited her rights by her
desertion, if I were to give her some money this “income”
would be sufficient ‘proof’ for the Social Welfare Department
as a qualifying condition of her getting the One Parent
Family Payment.
It appears from this that the Department is aware
of this corruption of the legal position as it also
states on the form that the terms used are “not legal
terms”. In this way the Department apparently is keen
to pay benefits to deserters to which the Department are aware they
are not legally entitled to.
My research has also revealed that Section 316 (contributions
towards benefit or allowance) of the "Liable Relative"
provisions - Part X of the Social Welfare Act of 1989
- is applicable where there has been a payment of a
Deserted Wife's Benefit, a Deserted Wife's Allowance,
or a Deserted Husband's Allowance or Supplementary Welfare
where a person is entitled to these benefits
Over the course of time these are nearly all
replaced by the so-called "non-judgmental"
One Parent Family Payment Scheme. Despite the Department
claiming this payment is “Non-judgmental” because they
no longer seek proof of desertion, the reality as can be seen by
my situation is that by awarding the One Parent Family
Payment they are being entirely “judgmental” to me and
my children, as they are condemning me as a “Maintenance Debtor” and depriving my children of
my love, guidance and support.
The "Liable Relative" provision was brought
into law on the strict understanding that it would be
applied only in cases of desertion. The use of this
provision and the involvement of the "Liable Relative
Section" regarding claims for One Parent Family Payment, and the subsequent
intimidation and harassment of
deserted husbands, appears to be
completely illegal.
Q. 10 Under these terrible circumstances
what do you see as your prospects for the future?
I understand that my name will have been recorded
with the "Liable Relative" section of the
Dept. of Social Welfare. I will be listed as a "maintenance
debtor". If I ever find time to earn an income
again after years spent working desperately to protect my children – who
appear to be lost in an endless legal and bureaucratic
labyrinth – I will be expected to "make a
contribution" towards the illegal payments
that the Dept. has been making to my wife. If I don't comply with their demands they
will bring a civil action against me in the Courts.
If I don't comply with a Court order I will be imprisoned
as a criminal!
I am registered as a "maintenance debtor".
As such, with no available hope of appealing against
this arbitrary decision, I am held in Debt Bonded Slavery
by my wife and the Social Welfare Dept. My wife can
receive this "non-judgmental" pension apparently beyond
the coming to maturity of my children, in fact for the
rest of her life, and I will be expected to "contribute”
whilst she lives.
Any Civil Legal action I have taken has been prejudiced
by the involvement of the
"liable'' relative section and any
action I may take in the future will be similarly prejudiced.
In the view of the Court with the knowledge that my wife was in receipt of the One Parent Family
Payment I was deemed a "maintenance debtor".
As a parent with Custodial authority my wife’s possession
of the children without my consent was unauthorised.
The award of the One Parent Family Payment by the Department
to her however has had the effect of covering up the
abuse that was going on and at the same time prejudicing
my position by apparently showing that she already had in some way “the blessing of the state” in her
possession of the children and therefore condemning
me of the crime of apparently abandoning my own children
and “failing to maintain them.”
Q. 11 Can you sum up how this One Parent Family
Payment scheme has affected your Family?
My wife was enticed by its easy availability to desert
me and steal my children so that she could exploit them
for money. Not only does it entice, but it also throws
it's victims into an adversarial legal system that causes
such bitterness that there is little likelihood of my
Family surviving this experience.
The initiation of a legal process by my wife exactly
coincided with her claim for One Parent Family Payment.
Since that time and because of her award of the claim
any hope of a reconciliation of our Marriage has seriously
curtailed . The state has replaced my position in the
Family and I have been separated from my children as
a direct result ever since that time.
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