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Letters and Articles:
Day Care Deception: The Family Under Siege-August 19,
2003
(The Family Research Council)
Summary: Parents overwhelmingly believe that
children do best when they are cared for by a parent, and
social science findings consistently support that idea.
However, day care advocates continue to suppress these facts
due to business considerations and ideological reasons.
by: Brian Robertson
The "day care deception" of my book's title
refers to two things: 1) the continuing attempts to cover up
or explain away the social science findings that show the
serious risks of over-reliance on non-parental group care for
preschool children, and 2) the continuing attempt to portray
greater public investment in organized group care for children
as something that time-strapped working parents demand.
With regard to the social science data, the evidence is
conclusive and becomes more conclusive every year: day care is
a serious risk, both to children's normal development and to
their health. Just last month, findings from an ongoing study
conducted by the National Institute of Child Health and
Development showed a high correlation between time in
non-parental group care and "aggressiveness" in
children, a technical term used by investigators to describe
behaviour such as non-compliance, talking too much, arguing a
lot, throwing tantrums, demanding a lot of attention,
disrupting class discipline, cruelty, meanness, bullying,
explosive behaviour, and getting in a lot of fights. The study
showed that children who spend an average of thirty hours per
week or more in non-parental group care display three times as
many of these behavioral problems as children who spend ten
hours per week or less in day care, about as dramatic a
correlation as one can find in sociology. Despite the attempts
of the NICHD and the media to downplay and explain away the
findings, they were clear to anyone who bothered to pick up
the study.
The newer findings regarding the detrimental effects of day
care on behavior and the mother-child bond are merely the
latest confirmation of warnings from numerous child
development experts over the last forty years--warnings that
have been largely suppressed by the reigning day care
establishment of researchers, journalists, and lobbyists. The
truth is, these experts--particularly those that specialize in
the field of "infant attachment"--found the evidence
against day care for young children conclusive long ago.
Burton White, former director of the Harvard Preschool Project
and a leading authority on the first three years of life, is
one of the few who has dared to breach the conspiracy of
silence that surrounds this body of research. "After more
than thirty years of research on how children develop
well," he writes, "I would not think of putting an
infant or toddler of my own into any substitute care program
on a full-time basis, especially a center-based program."
"Unless you have a very good reason," he
concludes," I urge you not to delegate the primary
child-rearing task to anyone else during your child's first
three years of life...Babies form their first human attachment
only once. Babies begin to learn language only once...The
outcomes of these processes play a major role in shaping the
future of each new child."[1]
Despite the frenzied assertions of day care defenders to
the contrary, for many years experts have been aware of a
consistent link between behavioral problems as well as
attachment disorders and time in day care. The recent data
merely confirm what researchers have been finding for the last
two decades and more.
Despite the fact that its advocates constantly tout day
care's benefits to children's intellectual development, these
too turn out to be an illusion--and a deception. While
defenders of day care for preschoolers point to supposed gains
in things like vocabulary and short term memory provided by
the "intellectually stimulating" environment of a
group care setting outside the home, there is no evidence that
this is the case. There has, in fact, been a massive effort to
cast early day care for infants and toddlers as an essential
component of early intellectual preparation for school which
can give young children a comparative advantage. Much of the
enormous amount of attention given to the "crucial first
three years of brain development" has centered on the
notion that a formal, systematic, "educational"
setting like a day care center is best able to provide the
intellectual stimulation necessary for babies and toddlers to
get the maximum intellectual advantage during this decisive
stage. The whole campaign is a huge distortion propagated by
the day care lobby.
First, the research actually shows that "quality of
care"--in this case referring to how much caregivers talk
to their charges--is what correlates with cognitive
development, not center-based care per se. This is also why
time with parents correlates with cognitive development. In
fact, in light of the poor quality of the vast majority of
existing center-based care (the level of infant stimulation in
the typical day care setting is low and lacks variety), on
this criterion day care is likely to be an intellectual risk
for infants and toddlers.[2]
And even though quality of care appears to be a marginal
factor, it actually accounts for very little of the
differences in academic performance and tests of cognitive
development. According to John Bruer's The Myth of the First
Three Years, only 1 to 4 percent of these differences have
anything to do with quality of outside-the-home care. On the
contrary, 96 to 99 percent are attributable to the influence
of parents.[3] One would think that this might be an incentive
to design policies to help parents spend more time with, and
become more engaged with, their children rather than to
provide more incentives for parent-child separation. But the
day care lobby in Washington has considerably more influence
than parents.
The most damning evidence of all concerning the dangers of
day care for infants and toddlers is that which reveals the
health risks, sometimes grave, which group care presents for
small children. Of all the indications available about the
perils associated with day care, none are so alarming,
well-documented, and consistently ignored as those that point
to the transmission of disease in day care centers.
The drastically elevated risk run by children in day care
of contracting infectious diseases is hardly a secret among
pediatricians and epidemiologists. The gravity of the dangers
day care poses to children's heath was indicated a decade ago
when Pediatric Annals devoted a special issue to day
care-related diseases, headlining their lead editorial
"Day Care, Day Care: Mayday! Mayday!"[4] The
statistics are truly shocking. According to one estimate
published by the American Academy of Family Physicians,
children in day care are eighteen times more likely to become
ill compared with other children, while, at any one time,
one-fifth of those attending day care are likely to be sick.
Of those sick children, 82 percent continue to attend day care
in spite of their illness.[5] Children in day care are three
to four-and-a-half times more likely to be hospitalized than
those raised at home.[6] One study estimated that
"children in day care are at a 50 to 100 percent
increased risk for contracting [certain] fatal and maiming
diseases for each year in day care."[7]
Aside from the cover-up of the risks day care poses to
healthy child development, the other aspect of the deception
is the notion propounded by day care advocates that parents
around the nation are demanding more public investment in day
care. In reality, despite substantial increases in dual career
families and the use of institutional day care for young
children, there is every indication that the vast majority of
parents are not happy with the situation. Public Agenda, a
non-partisan polling agency based in New York, released a
comprehensive survey in 2000 on the subject of how parents,
employers, and "children's advocates" view the issue
of child care. Its findings, little covered at the time, are
both fascinating and revealing. According to the survey,
parents prefer one parent to stay at home over a
"quality" day care center as the best arrangement
for children under five by a margin of 12 to 1; 71 percent
agreed with the statement that "parents should only rely
on a day care center when they have no other option." If
non-parental care is necessary, 78 percent of the parents
surveyed believe that relying on a grandparent or other close
relative is the best solution. Eight out of ten agreed with
the statement that "no one can do as good a job of
raising children as their own parents," and 63 percent
contended that it was not possible for even "a top-notch
day care center" to provide care as good as what a child
would get from a parent at home. Eight out of ten young
mothers with preschool children professed the desire to stay
home with them rather than continue to work. By an astounding
margin of 81 percent to 1 percent, parents feel that children
are "more likely to get the affection and attention they
need" with a stay-at-home parent than they are in a day
care center.[8]
This aversion to day care is confirmed when we look at the
policy options that parents prefer. The survey reported that
parents prefer policies that would "make it easier and
more affordable for one parent to stay at home" over
those that would "improve the cost and quality of child
care" by a margin of better than two to one. The study's
authors wrote:
"By overwhelming margins, parents say the love and
sustained attention a parent offers simply cannot be
replicated by other forms of care. Parents also believe that
children raised by a stay-at-home parent are more likely to
learn strong values and considerate behavior than children in
child care. When a parent cannot be home, parents say, child
care by a close relative is best." [emphasis added] A
more wholesale rejection of the official propaganda line of
the day care establishment cannot be imagined.[9]
This is obvious when we look at how dramatically the
opinions of the child development
"experts"--academics, sociologists, and advocates
who work in the field of child development--contrast with
those of parents. In most respects, the views and priorities
of the two groups stand in stark opposition. Eight out of ten
of the experts think that the attention children get in
high-quality day care is just as good as what they would get
from a parent at home. Only thirteen percent of the children's
advocates surveyed thought that "too few families
choosing to keep one parent at home with children at least
during the first few years" was a very serious problem,
but 86 percent of this same group felt that the "lack of
affordable, quality day care centers" was a grave
problem--the exact opposite of parents' views. While seven out
of ten of the child development professionals thought that the
best child care policy would be to "move toward a
universal, national child care system," just six percent
thought that "tax breaks that encourage families to have
one parent stay at home" should be provided.[10]
At the very least, these responses reflect a clear clash of
philosophies regarding childrearing between parents and the
professional "child development" community. What is
the essence of this clash?
The formation of children's intelligence, moral sense,
empathy with others, and a strong sense of self-identity have
always been regarded as among the most fundamental of parental
responsibilities. And the time parents put into this task--the
extent to which they invest themselves in this process--has
traditionally been regarded as the measure of parental
devotion. This understanding of parenting--indeed, the very
function of the family as the first school of social
virtues--is challenged by the day care agenda and directly
attacked by the ideology that undergirds that agenda.
One might think that in propounding such a revolutionary
doctrine--that our traditional notions of the family and the
primary formative role of parents are antiquated and
insufficient to the realities of modern life--the burden of
proof would be on those calling for drastic changes in the
established familial order. Yet, as we have seen from the
debate over the detrimental effects of day care on children,
this is not the case. The proponents of institutional day care
insist on irrefutable proof that institutional, center-based
care is truly damaging to children in measurable ways like
academic performance and emotional adjustment--and even when
proof is provided they insist that "other factors"
may be at play. The truth is that their determination to
justify the day care regime trumps any evidence. And what they
are determined to bring about is the surrender of parental
responsibilities.
In his book The Myth of the First Three Years, Bruer points
out how the research on early brain development is being used
by early child education advocates as an argument for
inflicting organized communal activities on young children,
with the excuse of enhancing skills (and future test
scores).[11] Just beneath the surface of the trendy argument
that neuroscience proves the necessity of stimulating a
child's brain properly during the first three years is the
mentality that childrearing consists of getting young children
on track early for their future roles as academic stars and
chief executive officers in a knowledge-based economy. Whether
they will be good spouses, parents, or citizens is another
question.
It is undoubtedly true that in an economy that increasingly
rewards educational attainment, intelligence is at a premium.
No wonder proponents of greater public investment in day care
are beginning to argue that center-based care should be viewed
essentially as preschool or "early childhood
education." Danielle Ewen of the Children's Defense Fund
was explicit about the analogy in a recent Newsweek story:
"Preschool is child care. Child care is
preschool."[12] As author Kay Hymowitz has noted,
however, this equation doesn't mean that day care is
"education in the humanistic or civic sense; it is all
business; it is school in the vocational sense. The point is
to train babies, yes--for the workplace." It is a very
narrow conception of education that does not acknowledge its
moral importance in molding character, and the logical
conclusion of such a small-mindedness is, in Hymowitz's vivid
words, "the absurdity of seeing a toothless infant
batting at his crib gym as an executive-in-training."[13]
A mindset that sees self-worth as limited to income-earning
potential is not likely to have much appreciation for the
family as the school of character.
When the energies and attention of the culture are focused
on the marketplace, the social and economic contributions of
the home--particularly in terms of the parents' role in
bringing up their children--tend to be regarded as irrelevant.
But the debate over day care will not address the
fundamental needs of families as long as it revolves around
the so-called "needs of the economy." Here, the
converging interests of feminist supporters of a day care
regime, business leaders, and advocates of an expanded federal
government become apparent. Feminists and other day care
advocates commonly make the argument that the "needs of
the economy" or the "needs of the labor force"
demand the workforce participation of married mothers. In the
same way, "the needs of government spending" can
only be sustained by the larger tax base that comes with
married mothers in the workplace, an argument that has been
repeatedly made by economic advisors to the current
administration. This is explicitly acknowledged by the Swedes,
cited as the "model" welfare society by so many who
promote government subsidies for day care. The Swedish
government concluded that "the gain which the State makes
from the taxes paid by working women would be greater than the
cost of [funding] the day care system," and that the
welfare society of Sweden "can be financed only by taxes
from a labor market in which almost everyone is working and
paying taxes."[14] This is fine with the former chairman
of the socialist Swedish People's Party, who was quite direct
in spelling out the party's agenda in shifting individual
allegiances from the family to the state:
The parental monopoly cannot be broken solely by indirect
measures--the State must intervene directly, by, for example,
taking the children from the parents during part of their
growing up years...It is best for the children and society
that a universal and compulsory preschool program become
clearly indoctrinating, thus enabling society to intervene
more directly when it comes to the children's values and
attitudes.[15] While other advocates of day care do not call
so explicitly for alienating children from their parents so as
to reorient "children's values and attitudes," the
push for a system of publicly supported day care certainly
reflects an underlying hostility to the notion of parents
being primarily responsible for their children's spiritual,
intellectual, and emotional formation. Their public arguments
for center-based, commercial care rely more on the convenience
to families of "professionalizing" the care of
preschoolers. (Because "child care professionals"
are in charge, parents with access to high-quality care can
rest easy about safety, hygiene, health, nutrition, education,
and play.) As at-home parenting becomes increasingly
uneconomic, it is portrayed as less desirable than the
alternative--even though it is what most parents want. Since
center-based care is a commercial endeavor, it is depicted as
more reliably consistent than both parents and relatives, who
can be sick or otherwise unavailable in a pinch. It is a
"service" that working parents require due to the
hectic demands of modern life. The late social critic
Christopher Lasch cut to the heart of this conceit when he
pointed out that although "the expansion of professional
authority at the expense of the family has been justified on
the grounds that the best way to 'help' the family is to
relieve it of its responsibilities," the true result
"has been to weaken the ties between the generations, to
reduce the emotional intensity of the parent-child connection,
to deprive children of direct access to adult experience, and
to produce a generation of young people who are morally and
emotionally at sea, lacking any sense of participation in
their culture's tradition or in its ongoing development."
With his usual perceptiveness, Lasch concluded that even
though it pretends to speak for the interests and serve the
needs of the family, the day care industry "actually
weakens its authority at every point."[16]
At one time liberals would have been the first to recognize
this distinction between the good of "the economy"
in the abstract and the good of families, and to fight against
the intrusion of the market into the sacrosanct domestic
sphere. In fact, an older women's movement did just that.
Before Betty Freidan and the new feminism equated careerism
with progress for women, protecting mothers in the home from
having to work out of economic necessity was central to both
the thinking and the political agenda of the early twentieth
century women's movement.[17]
The triumph of contemporary feminism affected liberalism in
profound ways, not least of which was a new identification of
women's interests with independence from husbands and family,
combined with a greater dependence on corporations and
government. Traditionally, American women had only accepted
placement of children in day care in emergency circumstances,
and then only "until the mother could be restored to her
rightful place in the home," in the words of social
historian Margaret Steinfels. "Day care was not a service
for the normal."[18] But the older notion, that interests
of mothers required protecting the family from the intrusions
of the market economy, began to break down with the new
feminism's attack.
As the marketplace relationships of the day care center and
the elderly care facility gain ground over the mutual
interdependence of generations in the domestic sphere, the
bonds between family members become less meaningful, and
family life itself becomes more strained. The breakdown of the
family in the United States is not only the result of changed
social mores, it is also closely related to the conceit that
the love of family members can be replaced by purchased care
in the marketplace.
Pushing for a greater provision of on-site day care by
corporations, Senator Barbara Mikulski reflected this
mentality when she argued, "If the private sector is
enlightened enough to provide slots for employees to park
their cars, it can provide slots for employees'
children."[19] But the idea that "purchased
care" can replace the blood relationships of the family
is ultimately absurd, even in economic terms. As the English
social critic G.K. Chesterton pointed out more than eighty
years ago, "If people cannot mind their own business, it
cannot possibly be more economical to pay them to mind each
other's business, and still less to mind each other's
babies." In the name of efficiency, Chesterton noted, day
care advocates were ignoring the plain fact that the natural
family system is "economical" precisely because it
is outside of the economy: "Ultimately," he wrote,
"[they] are arguing that a woman should not be a mother
to her own baby, but a nursemaid to somebody else's baby. But
it will not work, even on paper. We cannot all live by taking
in each other's washing..."[20] But the obvious logic of
his argument escapes day care advocates. At a 1997 White House
Conference on Child Care, California child care consultant
Patty Siegel complained that "the child care crisis is so
acute that child care workers in many areas of the country are
unable to find adequate day care for their own
children."[21] Thus has Chesterton's reductio ad absurdum
become a reasonable argument.
The radical feminists have always been aware, however, that
their social experiment of mandating equality of outcome in
the job market would ultimately run up against the reality of
mothers' actual choices for home and family. Full statistical
equality in economic and political life for women can only be
achieved with the abandonment of motherhood as traditionally
understood. The problem is, from the feminist perspective,
that women will not abandon that traditional role if left to
their own devices. The late Simone de Beauvoir, one of the
most significant intellectual influences on modern feminism,
bluntly argued that "women should not have the choice [to
stay home], precisely because if there is such a choice, too
many women will make that one."[22] Rather than
reflecting popular demand, the early support of radical
feminists for government funding of day care was based on this
very acknowledgement that workforce parity could not be
achieved without the provision of strong cultural and economic
incentives. Hence, the 1977 National Conference on the
International Women's Year chaired by feminist icon Bella
Abzug called for government funding of "universal"
day care and child development programs[23] and the 1986
National Organization for Women's convention demanded
"full public funding for...child care starting in infancy
and continuing through primary and secondary school."[24]
Since the new feminist version of women's empowerment
requires all mothers to pursue careers and be economically
independent of their husbands, it cannot abide the realities
of motherhood. Pregnancy and the responsibilities of
motherhood by necessity affect the workforce participation of
women, and not just because they are unfortunate
inconveniences imposed upon women by an oppressive patriarchal
society. Most women freely choose to scale back their
workforce participation because they want to invest themselves
in raising their children. In most cases, however, it is their
"economic dependence" on their husbands that allows
them to make the choice of motherhood. That dependence is
exactly what feminist ideology seeks to make impractical, if
not to abolish outright.
This view of women's emancipation ironically puts feminist
supporters of day care in the position of pushing to increase
the number of children who must lead regimented lives. They
lobby for public schools and businesses to include day care
programs for preschoolers, push for longer school years and
mandatory summer school, and want to lower the age of
kindergarten. Not only that, they seek greater government
intervention into family life to ensure that parents are
raising their children correctly in the home. "Every home
and family should be taught," insists Senator Hillary
Clinton, "through parenting education and family
visitation by social service intermediaries, how to raise
children. This would begin in the prenatal stages and continue
through childhood."[25]
It is in this context that one should view comments like
those of Senator Christopher Dodd when he says that the
"early childhood education" of center-based day care
is desirable from "the point that the child leaves the
womb."[26] The importance of such "education"
is not that it helps at-risk children, but that it undermines
traditional motherhood, family life, and parental influence.
Infant day care proponents Belle Evans and George Saia admit
as much when they bemoan the fact that when mothers raise
their children at home, "the mother's values, wishes,
needs, desires, and expectations are readily imposed on the
developing child, who often becomes a symbiotic extension of
the mother through whom she attempts to fulfill her own
unrealized ambitions." The authors argue that this is
"especially destructive to the child who often must live
out his mother's unfulfilled dreams rather than realize his
own identity."[27]
The sympathy of radical feminism with the tendencies of
encroaching market capitalism to replace family bonds with
market loyalties of workplace and paycheck has not often been
recognized. But it has always been an integral aspect of the
strain of feminism that regards the abolishment of traditional
motherhood and family relationships as the key to progress for
women. Now the dominant strain, it began as an aberration.
Almost unique in an era when the women's movement was
identified with maternalism and opposition to mothers' labor
force participation, the prophetic Charlotte Perkins Gilman
argued a century ago that industrial society "was freeing
the individual, old and young, from enforced association on
family lines," which would allow for "free
association on social lines" and "wide individual
intercourse" without the burden of family associations.
Gilman argued that the family as an institution was in its
death throes, and that "the lines of social relation
today are mainly industrial." A new order of loyalties
had to be forged: "As our industrial organization has
grown to the world-encircling intricacies of today,...the
unerring response of the soul to social needs has given us a
new kind of loyalty--loyalty to our work."[28]
Modern feminist advocates of "big business
socialism" echo Gilman's views quite closely. Judy
Heymann points out in her book The Widening Gap: Why America's
Working Families Are in Jeopardy and What Can Be Done About It
that "the revolutionary movement of men and women into
the industrial and post-industrial labor force has transformed
the United States," to the extent that all preschoolers
should be educated and cared for by the government on a scale
equal to the public education provided for five- to
eighteen-year-olds.
Mona Harrington insists that those family functions that
remain must be socialized. Her agenda includes: extending the
Family and Medical Leave Act to cover all employees and to
mandate paid leave; "joint corporate-government
contributions" to create a "guaranteed annual
income" for every household; high-quality day care and
bigger tax credits for parents who use it; support for early
childhood care and education as well as the expansion of
after-school programs; subsidies to ensure better training and
higher salaries for day care workers; and higher levels of
funding for elder care centers. All this, argues Harrington,
is necessary to institute a "new politics of social
responsibility."[29]
Author Theda Skocpol acknowledges that it is in the
enlightened self-interest of corporations to weaken family
bonds, since marriage and parenting get in the way of the most
efficient allocation of labor. But Skocpol insists that
corporate capitalism is perfectly compatible with the new
feminist order of the dual income family--as long as
government provides adequate social supports for the worker
bees. "It is a myth," she writes, "that vibrant
market capitalism and adequate social supports for working
families cannot go hand in hand." Skocpol's social
support system would include universal health insurance, paid
family leave, "repeated increases in the minimum
wage," and "a national system of subsidized [day]
care with state support going to both institutions and
families." Since today "participation in the
wage-employment system is universally understood as desirable
for all adults, men and women, mothers and fathers
alike," Skocpol concludes that "it will be necessary
to revalue national government as an instrument for addressing
broadly shared needs in the name of democratically shared
values." Only when families give up the small bits of
autonomy they still possess to the corporate state will
"work and family...mesh more smoothly."[30]
But support for this new big business-friendly nanny state
to replace the traditional family at home is by no means
restricted to the academic Left. It also happens to be the
cutting edge of management theory in the
"conservative" business schools. Stewart Friedman
and Jeffrey Greenhaus, professors of business management,
argue persuasively that corporate capitalism as we know it
today is neither socially conservative nor a bulwark against
family breakdown. Quite the contrary:because corporations
thrive in social turmoil--claiming the loyalties of workers
without family and neighborhood roots to get in the way--the
business professors urge America to "keep the revolution
going" since "the struggle for the creation of new
and more varied lifestyle options is far from over."
To further this revolution, the old notion of
"hierarchies" within families must be finally put to
rest, and Americans "must be prepared to make the most of
the brave new world" of corporate-based (rather than
family-based) loyalties. This "workplace revolution"
is a necessary result of capitalism's genius for
"creative destruction." Since "women seem to be
more skilled" than men in the qualities so desired in the
new economy such as handling ambiguity, multi-tasking, and
building personal networks, they must participate more fully
in the "brave new world of twenty-first century
careers." [emphasis added] The authors even argue for
"innovative summer camps" for children in order to
"open [their] minds to challenging the traditional gender
roles," a necessary preparation for the post-family
re-ordering of loyalties. The business professors single out
Hillary Rodham Clinton's book It Takes A Village for
particular praise on account of its "powerful
message" that "each of us--society as a whole--bears
responsibility for all children, even other peoples'
children." The policy measures that Friedman and
Greenhaus call for to bring forth their "brave new
world" are almost identical to those of the gender
feminists: government subsidies to "significantly
increase the quality and affordability of child care for
working parents," strengthened family leave laws, and
more recruiting, training, and pay for a professional class of
child care workers, all accomplished with state funds.[31]
The view of parental responsibilities and child care in the
home as obstacles to business efficiency has also made
considerable inroads into the corporate boardrooms of major
American companies. At the 1996 Family and Work Conference,
Randall Tobias, former CEO of Eli Lilly, sneered at the
"outdated" view that male heads of families should
be able to earn enough to enable a mother to raise preschool
children in the home. This antiquated notion, he argued, is
the reason that some companies still maintain personnel
policies "based on Ozzie and Harriet." According to
Tobias, companies need to take on an increasingly paternal
role. Eli Lilly, in addition to on-site day care, has a
cafeteria that prepares take-home dinners four nights a week,
a dry cleaning facility, and a twenty-four-hour counseling
service for its employees. Tobias emphasized the bottom-line
benefits the company reaps from such progressive policies:
"The child care facility," he asserted, "will
benefit not only the families that use it, but all our
employees, stockholders, customers--all who benefit from the
undivided attention of our employees."[32]
Other benefits that are truly family friendly, allowing
employees time at home to fulfill their family obligations
rather than ensuring their full-time presence in the office,
are remarkably little utilized by most corporations.[33]
Policies like comp time, flex time, part-time work with
benefits, priority scheduling for parents, and telecommuting
are all relatively rare in the corporate world when compared
with investment and subsidies for day care. Perhaps the
government should be offering businesses tax breaks for
adopting such policies as telecommuting, flextime, and
benefits for part-time workers rather than for setting up day
care facilities and referral services.
One voice conspicuously absent from the call for more
flexibility in work hours is that of the feminist lobby.
Groups like the National Organization for Women shun
discussion of such proposals out of the belief that, since
more mothers would take advantage of them than fathers, that
they would slow the movement toward gender equality in career
achievement. Suggestions that employers should recognize the
existence of two types of women employees in their work
policies, those for whom career comes first and those for whom
family obligations come first, are mocked as singling out
women for a "mommy track" which hampers their
careers. Any values that are seen to be in conflict with the
professional advancement of women in the money economy are
rejected, no matter how popular among the rank and file of
working women.[34] Instead, a corporate paternalism that
replaces the old, repressive paterfamilias regime is welcomed
as the path to liberation.
The new paternalist attitude on the part of corporations
was justified by Robert Allen, former CEO of ATandT, in the
promotional literature of the 1996 Family and Work Conference.
"We have not traditionally linked the wellbeing of
children to the success of business or the governance of
nations," he wrote. "Yet increasingly we're
acknow-ledging that upheavals in the American family aren't
self-contained--they intersect with business and economic
circles and loop into the social fabric of this
nation."[35]
What is so striking about Mr. Allen's formulation is that
the wellbeing of children is accorded importance only insofar
as it affects "the success of business or the governance
of nations." This reflects a reversal of the concern
about industrial or business pressures intruding into the
domestic sphere, to the detriment of family welfare. It tells
us that we have experienced a true cultural revolution in the
relationship of work and family. The only question today is
whether "upheavals in the American family" impinge
on the success of business rather than whether the success of
business impinges on the sanctity of the family.
From the perspective of most parents struggling to find
more time for their children, such a
"family-friendly" future of paternalist corporations
is likely to seem pretty ghastly. But this "brave new
world" seems equally desired by the feminist Left and the
Fortune 500. The striking similarity in thinking regarding the
family between radical feminists and corporate titans raises
some interesting questions about what it is, exactly, that the
modern feminist movement has achieved. In contrast to the pro-maternalist
women's movement of the first part of the twentieth century,
modern "careerist" feminism comfortably fits into
the corporate-state economy. As a result of the new feminism's
"success" in achieving its goal of empowered
professional women, the entire adult population--rather than
just half of it--is now expected to participate in the labor
force. As author Charles Seigel has noted, "Because of
the modern women's movement, we have moved from the 1950s
organization man to today's organization person."[36] The
feminist Left's continuing attack on repressive
"patriarchal structures" seems hopelessly irrelevant
today, when it is corporations, not husbands, who hold real
power in society. The feminist agenda--especially the
establishment of day care as a social norm--simply puts more
power in the same hands. That's precisely why so many CEOs and
professors of business support day care. But to a generation
that has grown up with working parents, an impoverished home
life, and the empty vulgarity of consumerist culture, the
feminist fight against the "patriarchal" family
looks to be not only anachronistic, but a large contributor to
the problem.
In light of the strange but powerful alliance of the
feminist Left and the Business Roundtable arrayed against the
self-professed interests of parents and the wellbeing of
children, who can be relied upon as a defender of family
interests? Even though the vast majority of parents are
opposed to day care for young children becoming the norm, it
must be acknowledged that, against such powerful financial and
social incentives, it will be difficult to reverse the trend
toward center-based care for preschool children. Parents have
relatively little influence on family policy makers,
especially when compared to the respective influences of
feminism and big business on the major political parties in
the United States.
But there are also indications of a brewing parental revolt
against the day care establishment. While the last thirty
years have seen a greater participation of mothers in the paid
workforce and an increasing reliance on non-parental care for
young children, there has been a remarkable sea change in
sentiment in the last decade. Parents are reacting against
both the commercialization of traditional family functions as
well as the careerist mentality that pursues personal
fulfillment through professional achievement at the expense of
the family. It is just possible that the prospect of a society
composed of the children of working parents raise by a
professionalized class of day care workers in technocratic,
amoral institutions for the benefit of the corporate-socialist
state will be the last straw that causes parents to reclaim
their prerogatives and recognize that strengthening the
vitality of family life in the home is the key to their
survival in every sense of the word.
Brian Robertson is the author of Day Care Deception: What
the Child Care Establishment Isn't Telling Us (Encounter
Books, 2003).
END NOTES 1. Karl Zinsmeister, "Longstanding Warnings
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of the First Three Years, (New York: Free Press, 1999), 91. 4.
Robert A. Hoekelman, "Day Care, Day Care: Mayday!
Mayday!" Pediatric Annals 20 (1991): 403. 5. Cynthia G.
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Philip S. Whitecar, "The role of the family physician in
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12. Kaye Hymowitz, "Fear and Loathing at the Day Care
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Parents, (Toronto: Stoddart Publishing: 1992), 335. 15. Ibid.
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26. "Creating A Better Start For Children: A New Look At
Child Care and Early Childhood Education," A Brookings
National Issues Forum, Tuesday, April 21, 1999, Transcript by
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George E. Saia, Day Care for Infants: The Case for Infant Day
Care and a Practical Guide, Beacon Press: Boston, 1972, 6. 28.
Allan Carlson, "Corporate America and the Family,"
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29. Ibid. 30. Ibid. 31. Ibid. 32. David Wagner, "Turning
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Lasch, Women and the Common Life, New York, W.W. Norton and
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